Hearth and Home
Wheel of the Year
Pagan Parent and Child
This is a subject that is near and dear to my heart,
I truly believe that to find more of who we are we need to look to our past.
Those people who deposited a bit of DNA to make us who we are.
I am a genealogical addict, my imagination roams as I find new names and peek at what little documentation was left by my ancestors.
I try to picture how they lived, where they happy? miserable? did they worry about their children as I worry about mine?
Much of my family settled in around northern/central New England and Eastern Canadian provinces.
My maternal grandfather's family have lived for at least 1,000 years on or near the sea. Now, coming from a line of people who have this inexplicable passion for the ocean I like to think that this explains why. Most of the other half are/were farmers closely tied to the Earth and her rhythms.
From there I can see why I embrace my Pagan leanings, it's deeply ingrained from generations of those who held such a reverence for Nature.
An fyi for those new to family history research, many of the families who settled in the US during the pre-Colonial and Colonial times frequently have direct lineage to English and European royal bloodlines, usually through the outcasts or younger siblings of the Kings and Queens across the pond.
While I don't wish to promote any one site, partly because I am now miffed at what a big business genealogy has become.
Ten years ago one could find loads of info on message boards without having to pay. hmpf!
some sites are quite useful and well worth the $$
There are many sites to help you get started. I do recommend a Genealogy 101 course if at all possible.
I found one at a local high school years ago and it provided the much needed basics to make research easier.
Intuition is also a good tool to have I have found.
What to do with the info you've found?
I collect names and photos, I have a few possessions but very little. These items play an important part in my ancestral shrine (photo above).
Our Ancestral Shrine
I use the top of the entertainment center in our living room for the big main shrine.
On it one would find many photos of my ancestors, items belonging to them, a plate on which my daughter and I will leave seasonal and sometimes daily *offerings* from our walks. Flowers, seed pods, etc.
I find that having the shrine above the TV causes me to stop and say hello and just look at the eyes and faces of my family.
My maternal grandparents played a major part in my upbringing.
My grandfather passed in 1989 and my grandmother passed 2002.
I miss them terribly as they are for all intents and purpose my parents so it is a bittersweet moment when I stop to pass the time of day with them.
(Yes, I have received odd looks but I feel better talking with them). Samhuinn is a time of remembering ancestors and a perfect time to bring out your family tree.
Ceisiwr Serith, author of The Pagan Family describes a ritual of remembering ones ancestry on Samhuinn. At Samhuinn I use this ritual and name off everyone I can from memory, calling them to our feast.
Our table is set and a nearby table holds the genealogy and belongings of my family.
Lenoramoon shared a fantastic idea of making a Rememberance tree for Samhuinn which I first did a few years ago.
I found a fallen branch that looked like a small, bare tree and on colored paper cut in the shapes of pumpkins and apples
I wrote the names of our family and friends who have passed, these shapes can be laminated and one could add crepe paper, lights, anything that strikes your fancy.